Looking at this photo it's hard to believe that is actually me doing THAT. But when you detach from outcome and trust, enjoy being present in the process, anything's possible.
The result is a byproduct of process. Nothing more. It's not magic. Business, sports, life. All the same.
Get a coach, mentor, who has done what you're trying to do. Learn from them. Trust their process. And success becomes predictable. Detach from the result. Define yourself by your actions. This method works for everything in life. The minute you stop obsessing about outcome, results skyrocket. Stay in process.
I believe I can fly. I believe I can touch the sky. With the flying Candy I believe we can achieve whatever we desire if we understand the process. Goal, deadline, process, then detach from outcome.
You must let go of the result to achieve more and also achieve peace, freedom, joy along the way and avoid disease of more.
Process, process, process 18 months ago I'd never ridden a horse, and today they are my greatest passion.
Your past is not your future. Your past is not you. You are not your stuff. You can write how the story ends.
Step one, learn to be still. That's where you find the answers. Buddha didn't sit under the tree listening to Tony Robbins CDs. The answers came to him in stillness and so they can for you and me. If you're not happy, either change the lens or go find what brings you to life because what the world needs are people who've been brought to life.
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Incredibly blessed for the life I have today. I'm actually happy and I love going to work.
I get to teach people how to avoid the fuck ups I made, how to avoid the train smash from living a life in ego and entitlement.
I actually love going to work. The struggle was the gift. When life broke me, the cracks let the light in.
I stopped fighting life and forcing my egoic ways and surrendered to what was and made peace with now.
You are not your job. You are not your car. You are not your house. You are sons and daughters of the universe, just like all of us. The rest is man made constructs and stories.
You're not your bank account. When your income goes down you're not less of a person.
Define yourself by your daily actions and integrity, not past achievements and possessions. You are not your stuff.
Stop comparing and competing and start celebrating others success. You cannot have an abundant life if you don't feel abundant now.
Get around people who make you better and do it better. This bloke is exemplary. In business and life, so much respect for ya champion. You do it right, on and off the park.
Be the small fish in the big pond is my mantra. Stand on the shoulders of giants. Surround yourself with people of high integrity. I'm privileged to have men and women of the calibre of Adrian "BOMENTUM" Bo in my circle.
If the people in your life don't make you better, find some new ones. They're everywhere when you look xx
Incredibly blessed for the friends a have in my life. The last few years were tough ones, lessons I needed to learn. They were the toughest but also the best, years of growth, awareness and ownership. I stopped bullshitting myself. I suffered the disease of more and nothing I had was enough, so it was taken away. Perfect lesson, trust me. X
Through the tough times a few of my mates were there. He might be one of the most glamorous names in fashion, but to me this bloke is a true and dear friend.
When I was at rock bottom, flat as a tack with zero belief in me, Alex was there supporting, pushing, reminding me of what I was capable of.
Wanting nothing in return, just genuinely giving a fuck. You're a great man @alexperry007 and it's an honour to call you a friend.
P.s. You go good too @angelobouras. Another champion. Humble, real.
A.k.a. Clark Kent.
When he was struggling the herd, yesterday's heroes, commentators and most everyone said he was finished, done, would never win again.
Well he did win again and now he's at the top of the leaderboard in the biggest golf tournament on the planet. Yes its day 1 and yes it's early and yes there's 3 days to go, but this is a symbol of hope, possibilities and NEVER QUIT ON YOU Nobody else needs to believe your dreams, only you do. But you must believe with every inch of your body and soul, and then work that process.
Dream big don't quit.
I grew up playing golf everyday aspiring to play in tournaments like this. Tiger woods changed golf forever, but when he was down the vultures swooped for the kill.
Champions dig deep. They see what others don't in themselves. I see you. I believe. Keep going.
This hits like a hammer. Wow.
We must have meaning, purpose, contribution. We must have a sense of belonging and a role to play that serves others, not just ourselves.
We are tribal beings without a tribe. We have lost our sense of oneness. Unity. Together. And really become obsessed with the self and what "me" can achieve. Happiness ain't at the end of that street.
Back in village, tribe lode, everyone had a role and responsibility that served the greater good, now we're all trying to be chief Indian, grand master.
Everyone wants to be the top dog and be seen. I did for 20 years. Let me tell you, there's nothing wrong with anonymity. It's peaceful. Freedom.
Service not status. Help others to heal yourself. P.s. Happy mothers day to all the mumma bears out there. You are loved. You make every man in your life a BETTER man. You are always the rock, the strength.
I could NOT agree with this more. Somewhere along the line most people's lives become a charade, mine definitely did. Nothing good happens there and happiness it certainly ain't.
It's the unhappiness formula, keeping up appearances in an egoic state of fear. In contrast,
There is a freedom and peace that comes with complete truth. Someone says "why don't you have this or buy that" and you say "mate, can't afford it. Haven't got the $$" No charades, no puffery and keeping up appearances. If you don't wanna go to dinner with people, say no thanks gonna stay in.
Live life by design not for the appeasement of others. Play with a straight, honest bat and watch the quality come into your world. Peace
I look at images like this and I immediately think, WORK HARD DON'T QUIT, BE RESOURCEFUL, AIM HIGH.
I immediately think of my animal rescue farm and baby calves, goats, lambs and of course ponies, lots and lots and lots of ponies. Thelma, candy, and all their mates.
Have you got a dream inside that once burned bright but maybe now only flickers?? It's time to light the spark again in YOU. We get 80 laps around the sun if we're lucky and never any more than we have now. Tick tock the clock is ticking. It's time to reengage. It's time to dig deep.
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This is one of the greatest traps of modern man... I'll be happy "when" I get XYZ. this is the disease of when.
This is a story we tell ourselves that is at the core of most depression and resentment, misery and suffering.
We compare and compete and tell ourselves "when we get it" then we'll be sweet. Bullshit !! It's always now, right now in this moment that we can flick the switch.
Right now, posting this, I'm sitting in my local cafe drinking good coffee chatting with Oscar the Argentinean barista champion, having a laugh. That's as good as it gets. Setup looking over the hill. It is fools gold. It's literally the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Stop chasing rainbows and be here now, intensely present grateful and engaged in now. P.s. Am I perfect at this all the time, F*** NO.
This is the goal and best practice living.