Said from a place of love STOP kidding yourself and take ownership! Address the real problems that are holding you back. (Note: they're normally aways fuelled by the ego (fear) but we can't see it because we are in ego at the time so it's not our fault LOL.
Again,. The ego). 40, bankrupt, in AA, wasn't exactly on my vision board at 30. But it was the best thing that ever happened. We think we've got it all planned out. Rubbish.!! If you can be still, grateful, present, the answers will come. Plans and goals are great for directional focus but then we must detach from outcome. Define yourself by your actions today not your cumulative achievements or bank account.
Suffering comes from attachment to outcome and the story we tell ourselves about who we'll be when we achieve the goal. Wrong.
Service not status. Actions not achievements. Love not fear. How can I serve not what can I get.
Focus on staying on purpose with your highest self not on succeed at...
101 ways to fuck up your life by Geoff Jowett. This isn't theory, I lived it did it all wrong and it showed me the path for which I'm forever grateful . = brutal honest truth with self. the better you get the better people you attract. #realestate #inspiration #motivation
THIS IS YOUR LIFE IT'S IMPORTANT IT MATTERS. BUT VERY FEW PEOPLE TAP INTO THEIR GREATNESS. WHY..... Fear.
Fear of failure and what others think. Newsflash "don't follow the herd they're going the wrong way". Don't define yourself by the opinions of others or achievements. If you define yourself by public opinion you are destined for a troubled life of feeling less than. "I am enough. I know enough. Now is the time". #realestate #inspiration #motivation
If you're struggling with any of these the reality is your in ego. (The shadow self as Eckhart Tolle describes). The egoic mind loves all of these things. It loves to protect and validate its position (fear) and prove it is right. It wants to take the high ground over others.
None of this leads to love, happiness or your highest and best.
If you are constantly experiencing any of these symptoms, this is your shadow self running your life.
Suffering is predominately caused through attachment. Set the goal and then come back to process and detach from outcome. If you make your identity the goal you'll never be happy or ultimately successful. Your identity is not what you achieve or the "stuff". Define yourself today through your actions and integrity today, nothing more nothing less. #weightloss #inspiration #motivation#realestate
Let me ask you a question.
Way back when, you got into relationships with the wrong people, what did your gut say?
Maybe your gut screamed out warnings but you ignored them. You went to the wrong person instead of listening to your gut.
When we’re in a state of ego and fear, we attract people who are in the same state.
Sometimes, I look back on the people who’ve been in my life over the years. And it wasn’t that they were bad and I was good. It just doesn’t work that way.
Bad doesn’t attract good. Dark never attracts light.
So if you’re dark, you’re going to attract dark people. That’s the position I found myself in way back. My gut didn’t play a big role in my decision-making because I sought out the bad.
The people I attracted were just like me.
When we look back on life, it’s easy to point the finger of blame at other people.
"If that person hadn’t done this, I wouldn’t be in this position!"
This is the best car I've ever owned. Why?? Because I'm proud of the bloke behind the wheel today. Actions not achievements. Service not status.
Be proud of the person you are not the stuff you have. The irony is that in time, if you still want the stuff, you'll achieve more, but you're not defined by it. (And you'll probably want less stuff). Define yourself, judge yourself, by your actions and integrity today, not achievements or the opinions of the herd. Love ya, Geoffro.
P.s. Thank you @madgogram and @pbellygram for sorting out this little weapon. I really appreciate. Anyone wanting a ripper of a second hand car get down to Sylvania,. Tell em GJ sent ya and ask for belly Whatever Hyundai wants... It Getz. P.P.s. William and Harry thank you too. They're pumped for the beach.
Have you ever met somebody who just doesn’t want to put the work in?
They don’t want to take the initiative and make a change in their lives. They just want you to keep telling them what to do.
But they don’t even value your time. They don’t care that you’re putting yourself out there to help them.
They’ll just keep asking for help because they don’t want to help themselves.
How many of you keep spoon-feeding these people? How many of you keep babying them in the hopes that they’ll wake up?
Eventually, they’ll see what they need to do for themselves and stop draining you.
That’s a mistake that I see so many people making. You want to love everyone and help everybody. So, you keep giving more of yourself to help people who don’t appreciate it.
You don’t change lives like that.
The old "It’s okay, it’s okay, it’s okay," line doesn’t work.
It’s okay that you’re...
Warning Change the lens. Change the success markers. Change your life.
While ever we are defined by achievements and opinions of others we will ride a tumultuous roller coaster at best. There's a better way.
Gauge your success by your actions and integrity today. They will compound over time into incredible achievement like never before, but the trick is to not define yourself by stuff, money, outcome but rather daily process and action. You will stay humble and keep your eyes on the road.
Said with love, reflection, tons of personal fuck ups and gratitude for today. #inspiration #motivation#realestate
You’ve probably heard about me talking about success journals in the past.
I think they’re really useful tools. They help you keep track of how well you’ve done and how far you’ve come.
But I understand that some of you feel a little uncomfortable with them.
Almost like you’re boasting about how great you are.
I don’t think keeping a success journal is the same as boasting.
Boasting is if you pay for a huge billboard somewhere with your face plastered all over it. It’s if you’re seeing a group of friends and all you do is tell them how amazing you are.
A success journal isn’t the same thing.
Here’s what I want you to remember.
It’s critical that we remind ourselves how far we’ve come. It’s so easy to lose sight. You get a few months down the line and you start to forget what things used to be like.
Or, something bad happens and conjures up those negative emotions again. You feel like slipping...
The other day, I found myself thinking about my approach to coaching. I started comparing what I do today to what I used to do a few years ago.
The way I do things has changed dramatically over the last few years.
When I first started, I used to think I’d failed if I didn’t get all my clients to breakthrough right now!
If there wasn’t immediate progress, I thought I wasn’t doing my job.
And that made me push too hard. It made me try to force breakthroughs in people who weren’t ready for them yet.
I had no idea. Talk about being ignorant.
In the years since, I’ve come to a realisation.
Everyone works to their own timeline.
That means we’ll all blossom at our own pace.
Some of you may start seeing immediate results with TJM. The weight falls off and everything goes great from the start.
Others may not notice anything at first. It takes a little bit longer for whatever reason. Maybe you have to work a little harder to change your...